Lets Sparkle

Today was such a good day. Just me and my girl jenn. We started it off with seeing the sex and the city 2 movie. Well what can i say but fabulous. I wanna be a writer like carrie. I want to have a collum and then write a few books. I want to give words of advice to the world. I want to tell my story. Well anyways Carrie mentioned something that i havent been able to stop thinking about all day. She was worried where the "Sparkle" went in there relationship? No one wants to be that old married couple but yet some couples ( almost all ) sometimes even before there married become that old married couple. It never fails that it starts the arguments and fights after that. Someones unhappy then they forget why they fell in love with the other in the first place. This moment of fighting is the true test of every relationship cause you usually come out soaring or.... crash and burn and there is no easy way out. No matter the relationship someone is hurt or left in a daze after every end. So how do you avoid the loss of sparkle? Do you need to lose it to put your relationship to the test ? And what if there never was a sparkle? Is it okay to love someone that doesnt set your heart on fire ?